Month: May 2026

Giving Yourself Permission

May 5, 2026

Have you ever noticed that despite the millions of ideas circling your head, the second you actually sit down to write, it’s as if every single word you’ve ever learned just instantly slips out of reach?

The cursor blinks.

The page stays blank.

Your mind, which had so much to say five minutes ago, suddenly feels empty.

It happens to me more often than I’d like to admit.

Wanting to become a writer – a successful one – isn’t just about having imagination or mastering technique. Yes, those things matter. But more than anything else, it requires time. Time spent writing badly. Time spent staring at sentences that don’t quite work. Time spent showing up even when you don’t feel inspired.

And that’s where I tend to get stuck.

I get in my own head. I start running through every thought imaginable.

Why aren’t you writing?

You’ve wasted so much time.

Other people are finishing books – what are you doing?

That kind of thinking carries weight. It lingers. It settles somewhere deep, and before you realise it, writing stops feeling like an act of creation and starts feeling like an obligation you’ve already failed to meet. So the next time I sit down, the pressure is already there, and nothing comes out.

Recently, I found myself right in the middle of that familiar predicament. It had been months since I’d properly sat down to write anything substantial. A poem here and there, maybe. A few scattered thoughts. Nothing that felt like work. Nothing that felt like progress.

I told myself I was being unproductive. I told myself I had no ideas. And the longer I believed that, the more true it seemed. Maybe writing just wasn’t for me.

Then something small happened.

My dad and I were watching a show together, and during one particular scene, he laughed and said, almost offhandedly, “I bet you could write this part better.”

It wasn’t a challenge. It wasn’t even advice. Just a casual comment.

But something clicked.

Instead of thinking about what I should be writing, or what kind of writer I want to be, I thought: What would I do differently?

How would I change the pacing?

What would I make the characters say?

Where would I let the scene breathe?

Suddenly, the pressure was gone. I wasn’t trying to be productive. I wasn’t trying to prove anything. I was just responding. Playing. Writing for the joy of it.

And in that small shift, the words came back.

In the last week, I’ve written more than I did in the entire second half of 2025.

Not because I forced myself.

Not because I waited for inspiration.

But because I stopped demanding brilliance and allowed myself curiosity instead.

Sometimes, all it takes to start writing again isn’t a grand idea or a perfect plan. It’s just giving yourself permission to begin somewhere small, imperfect, and a little bit playful.

Mia Muraca
Editing Intern

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